My Journey to Menopause

**Males or hyper sensitive readers turn away now. I'm 44. Shhhh. Don't tell anyone. My stock answer is "I'm forever 21".I'm greying, things are sagging and the rest are either tired, veiny or dry. I'm in active peri – menopause, but I couldn't be happier! Relieved would be a better word. You see, I've always…… Continue reading My Journey to Menopause

Why my Reality is Not Who I Am and Doesn’t Define Where I’m Going

This post was  really hard to write. I struggled with how personal this would be, how ashamed I am that I failed at something that others find so easy, how much I’ve put my family through, and I struggled with how to paint this so I don’t come across as a complete egomaniac with narcissistic traits.…… Continue reading Why my Reality is Not Who I Am and Doesn’t Define Where I’m Going

How to keep romance alive over 40

I am uniquely unqualified to write about relationships. I’ve only ever had two serious relationships, and I married the second guy.  A few days ago we celebrated our 13th wedding anniversary with our 10 year old. We’ve had our ups and downs, battled through some crazy odds, and still we’re working it out. It doesn’t…… Continue reading How to keep romance alive over 40